EMDR & CBT Therapy in Epsom, Surrey

Evidence-based therapy for anxiety, trauma, and burnout.

In-person in Epsom | Online across the UK Serving Banstead, Sutton, Ashtead, Kingston, and across Surrey

What EMDR & CBT Can Help You With

Therapy can help you process difficult experiences, transform anxiety, and break free from patterns that keep you stuck. My clients have found relief from:

Burnout & Work Stress

  • Occupational stress overwhelm

  • Toxic workplace dynamics

  • Signed off sick

  • Leadership pressure

  • High-functioning anxiety

  • Imposter syndrome

Trauma & PTSD

  • Childhood trauma

  • Sexual assault

  • Workplace trauma

  • PTSD & complex PTSD

  • Disturbing memories

  • Relationship trauma

Relationship Difficulties

  • Low self-esteem

  • Difficulty setting boundaries

  • People-pleasing

  • Recurring patterns

  • Toxic relationships

  • Perfectionism

Anxiety & Panic

  • Social anxiety

  • Panic attacks

  • Worry

  • Public speaking and presentation anxiety

  • OCD & intrusive thoughts

  • "I feel liberated of those fears! Having learned some great tactics with your support, I’m now able to calm myself in situations and also feel confident doing things I never thought I could do anymore. This has given me a new outlook on life and the ability to clear my mind of the noise"

    Head of People Partners | Commercial Real Estate

  • "The whole process has been a truly educational, strengthening and enlightening experience. Our sessions developed from dealing with social anxiety and low self-esteem to talking about making positive changes within my life. I would highly recommend Thulasi, I couldn’t have made such changes to my life without her"

    CBT Client

  • Thulasi is the therapist I never knew I needed! She's been great at guiding me to realise and name parts of myself which I found immensely helpful in coping with my worry which is the stem of much of my anxiety. I love that she provides her opinion with permission when needed, as her voice provides a different perspective that I find insightful.

    Client Solutions Manager | Marketing

  • From the very first conversation I was at ease. Once we had worked on my immediate workplace issues we moved onto coaching and next steps in moving forward. I would thoroughly recommend Thulasi to anyone, especially those who may be nervous to reach out and ask for support.

    Director of Adult Services | Charity/Third Sector

  • What I found most incredible, was the space with which Thulasi created in order for me to complete and transform past traumas with EMDR. For me, this form of treatment is unquestionably the most effective and healing experience I’ve ever had. I think it’s the combination of Thulasi being a really insightful practitioner and how the process works.

    Business Owner | Creative Services

From Coping to Thriving

Relief From Physical Symptoms

Many clients come to therapy distressed by physical manifestations—tight chest, difficulty breathing, hypervigilance, flashbacks, and nightmares. Learn to understand these body responses and develop techniques to regulate your nervous system when it feels threatening or overwhelming.

Strengthen Your Mental Resilience

Develop robust mental strategies that help you respond effectively to challenges rather than reacting automatically. Build internal strength that enables you to face difficulties with confidence and clarity.   

Master Your Emotional Responses

Transform your relationship with strong emotions that once felt overwhelming or uncontrollable. Develop the ability to experience feelings without being overtaken by them, maintaining your composure and effectiveness even in challenging situations.

Break Free From Limiting Patterns

Identify and release recurring thought and behavior patterns that keep you stuck. Experience the liberation that comes when you're no longer controlled by automatic responses to triggers.

Feel Like Yourself Again

When psychological distress manifests physically and emotionally, the mind-body connection becomes fragmented. Learn powerful techniques to reintegrate this connection, helping you feel like yourself once again.

And there’s a lot more…

Those are just few of the benefits you’ll experience by building a psychological toolkit. It will become your lifelong companion, and you can keep adding to it as you grow and evolve. 

Our Services - Therapy Approaches

  • Image showing how EMDR gets to the core of the psychological issue

    EMDR Therapy

    Brain-based trauma treatment that processes distressing memories through bilateral stimulation while recalling experiences. This unique methodology helps the brain reprocess stuck memories, reducing their emotional charge and transforming how they impact your daily life.

  • Image of a chair for talking therapy CBT

    Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

    Evidence-based approach that transforms problems by changing the relationship between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Using structured techniques and practical exercises, you'll identify and reshape the thinking patterns that drive emotional distress and unhelpful responses.

  • Therapy for Professionals

    Therapy for Professionals

    Specialist therapy for professionals, executives and business owners dealing with burnout, workplace trauma, or high-functioning anxiety. Combining EMDR and CBT with deep understanding of high-pressure environments.

Meet Thulasi

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Thulasi is a BABCP Accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist, EMDR UK Accredited Therapist, a Business Psychologist and EMCC Accredited Executive Coach with over 16,000 clinical hours delivered across 20 years in the NHS and 8 years in private practice.

What sets her apart: Before focusing on private practice, Thulasi worked at leadership level across complex NHS settings, including as a specialist trauma clinician for the Grenfell NHS response service and as Clinical Lead for NHS Workforce Wellbeing & Resilience during the pandemic. She understands both the clinical and organisational dimensions of workplace stress, trauma, and burnout.

She specialises in helping professionals, business owners, senior leaders and adults with trauma (childhood trauma, relationship trauma, workplace trauma), anxiety, PTSD, and occupational health difficulties—particularly those who appear fine on the outside but are struggling internally, or who've reached crisis point and been signed off sick.

What My Clients Say

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Business Owner, Creative Services

“What I found most incredible was the space Thulasi created for me to transform past traumas with EMDR. This form of treatment is unquestionably the most effective and healing experience I've ever had.”

CBT Client

“The whole process has been truly educational, strengthening and enlightening. Our sessions developed from dealing with social anxiety and low self-esteem to making positive changes within my life.”

Session Fees

Individual Therapy

Sessions are 50 minutes, taking place weekly

Sessions are available in-person at my practice in Epsom, or online across the UK.

Your first step is a free 15-minute consultation — a brief, no-obligation conversation to discuss what you're experiencing and whether we're a good fit. There's no commitment involved.

Online or in-person. EMDR and CBT. Weekly sessions to build your resilience and psychological toolkit.

£125 | Get started

Getting Started is Simpler Than You Think

Taking the first step towards therapy can feel daunting. Here's what happens when you reach out:

Get in touch

1

Send me a short message via the contact form or email. There's no right or wrong way to do this — just tell me a little about what's brought you here.


We have a free 15-minute call

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I'll be in touch personally, usually within 24 hours, to arrange a brief introductory call. This is a chance for us to speak, for me to understand what you're looking for, and for you to get a sense of whether I feel like the right fit. No commitment, no pressure.


We begin

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If we both feel it's right, we'll agree a regular weekly time to meet — either in person at my practice in Epsom, or online.

Get started with Mind Oyster, today.

Book a free 15-minute consultation to discuss how Mind Oyster can help you transform your challenges into strength.